Husband as caregiver

My husband is first and foremost my husband, but also my carer, caregiver, personal assistant ad infinitum.  Actually, when I introduce him to people and clarify his role, it is usually as “ma bitch”. He does shit for me. He does the shit for me that I can’t do. He helps me with the chronic illness stuff and he gets me out in the world, something which I am no longer able to do on my own. *Everything* I have read about being a caregiver is depressing.  Maybe I’m not reading the right stuff, I don’t know.  This article by […]

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Listening to my body and asking for help – being kind to me #motivationalmonday

Hey guys – happy Monday!  I’ve been a little under the weather lately – so apologies for the late post.  A burst of productivity last week meant that I was able to get some blogging done and schedule some posts during the week, but I’ve now caught up with myself.  I know in previous posts I have mentioned tests etc going on at the moment.  They are, more than anything because I have no idea what is going on with my body, so the professionals have been sent in, so to speak.  The problem with having several co-morbid conditions (conditions […]

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