Growing up different: bullying & ableism

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Content warning: bullying Recently, I’ve had the privilege of meeting and getting to know lots of new people who identify as disabled.  It’s part of a fun and ongoing story and I promise you will hear much more about it later.  The individuals I have met are open and honest, and as well as learning lots about them, I have learned a lot about myself.  Some good, some bad, and some just plain fact.  I’m one of those people who can chew information round and round in my head, and it only really makes sense when I say it out […]

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Shattering stereotypes and #breakingbarriers


Although I am getting on a bit (or so my roots tell me) I would not quite consider myself elderly just yet.  I do however have quite a lot in common with the elderly, and I’m not just talking my ‘Amy Farrah Fowler’ granny chic and fondness for prunes (they really are sooo good!).  Speaking of The Big Bang Theory, here’s the science bit.  I promise it is short, painless, and those who read will be rewarded with chocolate. Most people, when they hear the word ‘disabled’ think of the medical model, which states that people are ‘disabled’ by their impairments or […]

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Tools for greater independence: bathroom edition


When you have physical limitations and specific needs, it stands to reason that you’re going to have to make some changes to your life and your home.  It’s amazing how many everyday tasks that most take for granted that myself and others struggle with on a daily basis.  I’ve written about adaptations in my home before and I did cast a little shade on my humble little wet room.  I feel bad about that.  The truth is I love a soak on a bath, and dream of a luxurious claw foot tub where I can soak my cares away while […]

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If the shoe fits…

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Call me shallow, but as beautiful as I find the changing seasons, it is to the catwalk and the new seasons collections that I look to before pausing to take in the beauty of a frosty morning or a spring bloom.  Nature does it all so well, the rich autumnal colours and the bright hues of spring, it looks almost effortless year after year.  But it’s to the overflowing racks of gorgeous garments and fabulous footwear that I turn my attention when I want to be wowed by what’s available for us mere mortals to declare our intent for the […]

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Be Happy

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The world is heavy.  Depending on where you look and how hard you look there, you can always find something to be sad about, to get angry about.  I more than some are predisposed to what the Germans (who have a word for everything) call ‘Weltschmerzen’ quite literally translated as ‘world pains’ and defined as ‘sadness on thinking about the evils of the world’. Well duh? Might be your answer if you were a teenager in the 90’s or watch a lot of FRIENDS.  Who could possibly watch the news and not be affected? Shouldn’t we all want to get out […]

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Confession: I have no filter


If you asked me to tell you 10 facts about myself, the first would probably be that I have no filter, which would make a smooth segway into the next 9 facts which would probably be wholly inappropriate and quite possibly cringe worthy.  Of course what I mean by this statement is that my personal lines between what I should and shouldn’t say and to whom are very blurred, or non-existent.   I know that I shouldn’t say fuck in front of small children or the elderly, but that’s about as far as it goes.  This is why, since the […]

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Fun ways to change up your look

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There are so many reasons that I love beauty and fashion that they are just to innumerable to list, but if I did the sheer amount of different ways to change up your look would have to be one of them.  I get bored with my toothpaste before I’ve even finished the tube, why would I want to keep my look the same each day?  There are so many little things I love to tinker and play with, some obvious and some a little less obvious.  Here, in no particular order, are some of my fave fun & funky ways […]

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